Dating several men at once
If I meet someone, I go on a date, and I like them, i dont seek out new partners.. But recently I met a woman, (and have encountered this before) that I really like, yet have heard her mention, although briefly, other men she is dating. Now we only had one date, but we hit it off and are going on another(one day before she goes out of town to see other guy she is dating i believe.) But, she does not seem flaky, and she made it a point to tell me how interested she is, how much she likes, and asked me to come see her the next 2 nights in a row after we met.(although i could not) My question is... I dont have much claim to her after one night, but also never enjoyed being one of many men a woman is dating. But right now it's reasonable not to narrow the field.
If she mentions the others is she testing me (since she made it clear she really likes me), or is she trying to say "i am just having fun, although i really like you" Am I too possessive? SHould I act like it is fine for her to date others? I want to be honest,l, but dont waant to blow this by being too possessive? assuming that you've slept with her, then her playing the field at the same time is enough reason for you to bolt.
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When you aren't in a relationship, often you have to go on dates with several different people to see who will click.
maybe because guys often control the initial stages of dating? there was a guy that wrote about letting women check out the goods the same way guys do... Take pause and realize that this behavior is happening on both sides of the fence. I don't care if a woman is dating 10 men or just me, if she can't get my name or details about me correct or doesn't seem in to me then she doesn't get another date. Until then, I'll continue to multiple date, learn more about myself (because I always learn something about myself from an individual) and continue on with the hope that somewhere out there is my fish I can sum it up a few ways for both men and women ~So many people so little time! Sad thing is they go back to the same bad choices instead of trying something different and new .
Moreover if one of the women you are going on dates with rejects you, you don't internalise it feeling that there is no one out there for you because there are other women you are also going on dates with.
To do it right, you need to be fair to the guys you’re dating and to yourself.