It seems like everyone's looking for love online ... A few short years ago, we had to put some actual effort into dating and finding love. We connected with friends and headed out on the town/to the bar/to the game.
“Don’t date someone you don’t see yourself marrying.” A common reason people date is for the purpose of finding a spouse and starting a family, so in this sense, it is only natural to take these future plans into consideration.
He lived in Chicago and was searching in Sacramento.
It’s no big secret that married people are looking to meet someone online. Married people often hide their real location or have weird photos that don’t show them clearly, but they promise to email you more.
While he had great stories, I finally took pause to ask him, are you sure you’re only 30? They either look old in the photo or their photo looks like the quality is from when you still had to shake your Polaroids. Compare if their life answers makes sense or if things just don’t add up.
He was very intelligent and had done all kinds of things. He was former military, had an engineering degree, had traveled to all kinds of places, was taking a year off before starting grad school, used to be a paramedic — the list of stuff this guy had done was seemingly endless. Pictures can your biggest clue to this online dating lie. It’s often because they assume people their age are not a proper match, they don’t feel an attraction for people nearer to their actual age, or they feel their interests are better with someone of a different age.