Carly spindel dating blog


06-Apr-2017 13:31

He found a petite, ten years younger, objectively attractive woman from a rich family to marry. But hey, all that free time means he can sit in the gym for hours working on his core. Only people with little else to offer assign so much importance to having a six-pack.

Chitre, an environmental lawyer and the founder of Priyamvada Sustainability Consulting, considers herself “a 9 or a 10,” but she says she’s done with gorgeous guys.

I love how he says, “You look merely beautiful today.” He’s so romantic.” When it came to dating in New York as a 30-something, which is 87 in lady years, Carly Spindel, vice president of a matchmaking company could never find a date. And let’s face it ladies, this is 2017, men want models or nothing.

It doesn’t matter how ugly the guy is, or how much of a creep, they all feel they deserve models. Last December when Carly met Dan after leaving her weekly support group, “Short Ladies Who Totally Aren’t Models and Should Live Under a Bridge Like the Trolls They Are” it was love at first sight. Dan threw up when he saw Carly for several minutes, only having dated 6 foot tall blonde underwear models.

“I could have [anyone] I wanted,” says Rochkind, now 40 and an Upper West Sider with a muscular build and a full head of hair.

“I met some nice people, but realistically I went for the hottest girl you could find.” He spent the better part of his 30s going on up to three dates a week, courting 20-something blond models, but eventually realized that dating the prettiest young things had its drawbacks — he found them flighty, selfish and vapid.

In this article, Dan Rochkind – that rare New York private equity executive, described as having a “full head of hair and muscular body” – talks about how he is nobly giving up dating absurdly hot women, boldly declaring that he will now stick to the “merely very beautiful” instead.

“Eventually, I was dreading getting dinner with them because they couldn’t carry a conversation.” Looking to avoid such a fate, Rochkind started dating a woman who isn’t a bikini model, Carly Spindel, in January 2015. The two met after Spindel’s mother, matchmaker Janis Spindel, scouted Rochkind at a gym.“From my personal experience, people who are better looking are less likely to pursue advanced degrees, or play an instrument or learn other languages,” he said, shortly before reminding readers that he has a doctorate in philosophy be tired of them before the semen has finished drying in the discarded condom?As it turns out, Rochkind, Beckeld and the others provide us with a perfect roadmap.“I met some nice people, but realistically I went for the hottest girl you could find.”He spent the better part of his 30s going on up to three dates a week, courting 20-something blond models, but eventually realized that dating the prettiest young things had its drawbacks — he found them flighty, selfish and vapid. Looking to avoid such a fate, Rochkind started dating a woman who isn’t a bikini model, Carly Spindel, in January 2015. The two met after Spindel’s mother, matchmaker Janis Spindel, scouted Rochkind at a gym.“I gave him my card and said I have the perfect girl for him,” recalls Janis, founder of Serious Matchmaking, based in Midtown. “From my personal experience, people who are better looking are less likely to pursue advanced degrees, or play an instrument or learn other languages,” says Benedict Beckeld, a 37-year-old Brooklyn writer with a doctorate in philosophy and the body of an Adonis.

The fact that he – in his own words “went for the hottest girl he could find” is not a reflection on his character whatsoever. I used to read Carly’s dating blog when she had one a few years back.

The column, titled “Why I won’t date hot women anymore,” made the case that outrageously beautiful women are shallow and vapid, and that the same is true for men – and implied that non-supermodels who are “merely” beautiful are a better pick.