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The first time the jealous accusations occurred I shook them off, partly flattered that he didn’t mind showing he cared. But the second time when he stalked my Facebook wall picking out posts from guys who had written me before he and I even began dating, I knew I wasn’t in a healthy situation. If I made a nice comment about another man, he said I didn’t compliment him enough.
If I talked about guy coworkers in an innocent manner, he questioned my relationship with them.
At this point, he’s afraid that everything he said in the beginning has led you to believe that you guys are a couple and he starts acting in a way that shows you this is not the case.But the bottom line is: when a man says he doesn’t want a relationship with you, believe him. So instead of chasing him and triggering his response to retreat, be the single woman he supposedly wants you to be…You don’t have to stop seeing him if you don’t want to, but don’t sucker yourself into believing that you’re going to change the situation, change him, “reach his misunderstood and mistreated heart”, etc. The higher your “market value” is on the singles market, the more likely he’ll be to want to lock you down in a relationship. Moreover, if a guy knows full well that another man would be glad to snap you up in a relationship and he still doesn’t come around and want an exclusive relationship with you, then you can be certain that there was nothing you could have done to make him want to be exclusive with you…Well at this point, the guy realizes that you really like him, he has you, and he’s no longer worried that he could lose you to another guy.
At this point, things are probably starting to get comfortable- you make plans regularly, you’re in contact more frequently, and a relationship seems just around the corner.
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