Is race an issue when dating
John and Edelisa met on a dating site called Filipino Cupid.After three months of chatting online, John proposed to Edelisa – before they'd met in person.And yet, while the actual number of interracial relationships in the United States is certainly climbing, the overwhelming majority of Americans are in relationships with another person of their same race.In 2010, only about 15 percent of new marriages were interracial—bringing the total number up to 8.4 percent from 3.2 percent in 1980.When Han Song first met Sophie in a pub, he thought she was gorgeous ... "I thought oh well, I'm Asian, probably she's not interested." He was wrong. Han had only dated Korean women in the past and thought dating a white woman was "a fantasy".Sophie found Asian men attractive but says it was shared values that was most important.
However, after extensive research on the matter and discovering an endless sea of contradictory studies, my conclusion is this: it depends.
John specifically sought out an Asian woman for a partner because "Asian women treat western men better than a white woman might".
Edelisa thought a western man would be "better than a Filipino husband" because they're more responsible and provide better for their children.
Like most issues, staunchly taking one stance or the other does not result in a constructive discussion.
Responses to my comment, like, “your [racial] preferences are a product of and contribute to systematic bias and thus are part of systemic racism” oversimplify the issue, assume the thoughts of others, provide the same destructive type of thinking as the mentioned so-called systematic racism, and assume that we are all society’s prisoners void of any free-will in thinking.Ida Harding migrated to Australia from Ghana at the age of four.