Interview with dating gurus
Over the years I’ve done many interviews with dating gurus like Carlos Xuma and Adam Lyons.
You’ll gain access to all my dating guru interviews here.
I wanted to prove that I am not who she thought me to be and that I’m not what she thought me to be. Interviewing Carlos Xuma has been an honor, and so much fun! – Approaching women: the biggest mistakes men make when they want to approach a woman, and why it’s not about knowing what to say first but knowing what to say second. Hi it’s Carlos and I want you to join me today as I interview dating guru Derek Rake.
Here are some of the topics she wanted to ask me questions about: – The situation with Joseph Matthews (also known as Thundercat) and why I hate him and think he’s a liar – Why I am a controversial dating coach in the Netherlands – My thoughts on why mainstream media and “regular” dating coaches make fun of pick up artists and vice versa. In case you’re wondering who he is: Carlos Xuma was named in 2007’s Top 10 Dating Gurus and… Derek is the author of the INFAMOUS Rake Letters, the newsletter which I’m sure some of you have heard of, a LOT of useful articles and mastermind behind the very insightful Seducer’s Vault.
Any man who does so will learn to understand women far, far better than the vast majority of his peers. has since become a personal friend of mine, and I’m thrilled to have been selected to be part of his “Interviews With Dating Gurus” series back in 2007.
For several years I said that if I were a single guy in New York City, I’d live a lifestyle like Christian Hudson and Nick Sparks at The Social Man.
More than any other single contributor, I credit David De Angelo with having the most influence on my decision to become a professional dating coach.
Just reading another Dating Guru who is very successful with women and with life will give you power that you thought you never could find.What follows are the edited transcripts of the interviews. Wayne was the subject of the UK’s Channel Four television documentary “Seduction School.” He is also the founder and CEO of Charisma Arts which has 15 instructors who run in-field bootcamps and teach men how to meet women. They’re trying to get a girl into a relationship or into the bed when they need to be living in the moment …It’s a guy’s job to have fun and to show a girl a good time. They act as if women should take them because they’ll be good for the girl. You should be someone who is fun to be with all the time.He has written for Esquire and Blender magazine as well as authored an Ebook, “How to Meet and Connect with Women.” Wayne, what do you think the biggest mistake most men make with women is? On altruism If a guy tries to come across with a girl he just met as altruistic, saying “you are sexy” or “you’re fun to be with” or he’s trying to be nice to her, she doesn’t trust that because she believes everyone has a selfish motive.Dave presents all of his ideas in a hard-hitting but entertaining manner, and always with a great deal of integrity.
My personal recommendation is to read the book several times, and apply all of David D’s principles as “basics” in developing your own “natural” style.
I did not want to be a “victim”, and was committed to becoming the greatest spouse my future wife Emily could ever have hoped for (long before I even knew she existed).